{"id":5782,"date":"2011-05-13T19:34:00","date_gmt":"2011-05-13T19:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/2011\/05\/13\/sa-dihet-per-dhunen-ndaj-meshkujve-ne-kosove\/"},"modified":"2026-03-09T23:49:10","modified_gmt":"2026-03-09T23:49:10","slug":"sa-dihet-per-dhunen-ndaj-meshkujve-ne-kosove","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/en\/sa-dihet-per-dhunen-ndaj-meshkujve-ne-kosove\/","title":{"rendered":"Sa dihet dhe flitet p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn ndaj meshkujve n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Fatmir Qollakaj – Sociolog<\/strong><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Arber Beka-Zyrtar per Informim ne Policine e Kosoves<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

1 maj 2011, Dojc<\/span><\/strong>e Vele.\u00a0<\/strong> <\/span>Policia e Kosov\u00ebs raporton p\u00ebr qindra raste t\u00eb dhunes ndaj meshkujve, n\u00eb dhjet\u00ebra prej t\u00eb cilave ushtruese t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs jan\u00eb grat\u00eb. Por, edhepse shifrat e err\u00ebta besohet t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb larta, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ndikimit t\u00eb moralit tradicional denoncimet e tilla num\u00ebrohen n\u00eb gishterinj.Nga ana tjeter,ne Kosove jane 11-te Strehimore p\u00ebr Viktimat e Dhun\u00ebs, por nw asnjwrwn prej tyre s\u00b4ka vend p\u00ebr meshkuj mbi mosh\u00ebn 15 vjecare.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Me t\u00b4u p\u00ebrmendur nocioni \u201cdhun\u00eb\u201d, paraftyrohet femra si viktim\u00eb dhe mashkulli si ushtrues I dhun\u00ebs. Por, jo rrall\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e kund\u00ebrta dhe at\u00eb pa medyshje, mendon Fatmir Qollaku, sociolog.<\/span><\/div>\n
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\u201eDhuna mund t\u00eb ushtrohet ndaj atyre q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pabarabart\u00eb, n\u00eb kuptimin e fuqis\u00eb, t\u00eb statusit social dhe t\u00eb tretmanit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm. Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, edhe meshkujt mund t\u00b4jen\u00eb viktima t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs, qofte nga femra, qoft\u00eb nga mashkulli tjet\u00ebr, qoft\u00eb nga relaconi familjar. Por, edhe n\u00eb rrath\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb social, dhuna psicike, fizike dhe forma t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs jan\u00eb t\u00eb shprehura\u201c. <\/span><\/div>\n
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Edhe meshkujt i n\u00ebnshtrohen dhun\u00ebs permanente <\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n
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Policia e Kosov\u00ebs raporton p\u00ebr qindra raste t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs ndaj meshkujve, n\u00eb dhjet\u00ebra prej t\u00eb cilave t\u00eb dyshuarat jan\u00eb grat\u00eb. Rajonet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e shprehur kjo form\u00eb dhune jan\u00eb Prishitna dhe Prizreni. Arber Beka, zyrtar p\u00ebr informim n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs, vjen me statistikat e tremujorit t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb vitit 2011: <\/span><\/div>\n
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\u201eN\u00eb tremujorin e par\u00eb t\u00eb vitit 2011, gjithsjt jan\u00eb raportuar 130 raste t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs familjare. Nd\u00ebrsa, n\u00eb vitin 2010 jan\u00eb gjithsejt 944 raste t\u00eb raportuara, 190 prej t\u00eb cil\u00ebve jan\u00eb meshkujt.<\/span> Gjithsesi, nuk dihet numri I err\u00ebt I shifrave, pasi q\u00eb Policia e Kosov\u00ebs nuk posedon statistika per rastet t\u00eb cilat nuk jan\u00eb raportuar fare. Mir\u00ebpo, bazuar n\u00eb statistikat e Policis\u00eb s\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, dhuna n\u00eb familje \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb r\u00ebnje fal\u00eb fushatave t\u00eb realizuara me ndihm\u00ebn e institucioneve vendore dhe organizatave nd\u00ebrkombtare. Kjo ka ndihmuar vetdij\u00ebsimin e popullat\u00ebs se rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje nuk jan\u00eb q\u00ebshtje interne t\u00eb cilat duhet trajtuar brenda familjes \u00a0por nj\u00eb trajtim institucional \u00ebsht\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm\u201d, thot\u00eb z.Beka sipas t\u00eb cilit nd\u00ebr rastet e raportuara p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb ndaj meshkujve nga babai, axha, v\u00ebllai apo lidhje t\u00eb tjera, p\u00ebrfshihen edhe 11 rastet e denoncuara si dhun\u00eb fizike ndaj burrit e dyshuara \u00ebsht\u00eb gruaja.<\/span><\/div>\n
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Nuk dihen shifrat e dhun\u00ebs ndaj meshkujve<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n
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Sipas sociologut Qollaku, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb komnglomerat faktor\u00ebsh t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nxisin dhun\u00ebn ndaj meshkujve, si mosmarrevehsje, mospajtime, dallime n\u00eb perceptime dhe n\u00eb pranimin e vlerave, gjelozia e ndersjell\u00eb, etj. Por, p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn ndaj meshkujve n\u00eb Kosove pak dihet, m\u00eb pak flitet, nd\u00ebrsa denoncimet num\u00ebrohen n\u00eb gishtrinj. Dhe kjo ndodh p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ndikimit t\u00eb moralit tradicional dhe t\u00eb mentalitetit, pohon edhe prof.Fatmir Qollakaj:<\/span><\/div>\n
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\u201eHulumtimet e b\u00ebra jan\u00eb tregues t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs ndaj meshkujve, por kjo dhunw shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb denoncohet. Pra, mashkulli n\u00eb cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e viktim\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre heziton ta denoncoj\u00eb dhun\u00ebn, p\u00ebrvec n\u00eb n\u00ebse kjo ndodh n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb rastsishme\u201d. <\/span><\/div>\n
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Por, kur dhuna nuk denoncohet, e keqja shumwfishohet. Ahmet Fejzullahu, drejtor I nj\u00ebr\u00ebs nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tri Qendrat p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb Sociale n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb, sjell nj\u00eb shembull t\u00eb till\u00eb nga pervoja si pun\u00ebtor social. \u201eE ka sulmu gruaja bashk\u00ebshortin s\u00ebpat\u00eb dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb ngulur n\u00eb der\u00eb. Por, gruaja e ka paraqit rastin si dhun\u00eb ndaj saj, nd\u00ebrsa para policis\u00eb burri e ka prani se e ka marr\u00eb vepr\u00ebn p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr dhe tre muaj ka q\u00ebndru n\u00b4burg. Pas nj\u00eb kohe t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr nga lirimi, ka vazhduar tortura dhe rruga e pakthim e gruas e cila ka uhstru dhun\u00eb permanente ndaj tij, deri n\u00eb ndarje. Ai sot \u00ebsht\u00eb rimartuar dhe ka nj\u00eb jet\u00eb tejet t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lumtur me martes\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb\u201c, thot\u00eb drejtori Fejzullahu, sipas t\u00eb cilit 25 per qind e meshkujve i n\u00ebnshtrohen dhunes nga grate.<\/div>\n
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Meshkujt hamenden t\u00eb denoncojn\u00eb dhun\u00ebn ndaj tyre<\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u201eDhe k\u00ebt\u00eb e th\u00ebm me bindje t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Por, ata hamenden gjat\u00eb ta denoncojn\u00eb dhun\u00ebn, deri n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur p\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00eb thyrje personaliteti dhe kur kupa mbushet ata rr\u00ebfehen pa kufizim fare\u201c, thot\u00eb drejtori Fejzullahu, sipas t\u00eb cilit n\u00eb asnj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej t\u00eb 11 strehimoreve p\u00ebr viktimat e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, nuk ka vend p\u00ebr meshkuj mbi mosh\u00ebn 15 vjecare. <\/span><\/div>\n
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\u201eDhe, kur paraqitet rasti, ne i kemi duart e lidhura. Dhe; njer\u00ebzit qe ju nodhin k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra ata i ledahtojn\u00eb problemet n\u00eb vend se t\u00eb ballafaqohen me to. Shkojn\u00eb me shores\u00ebn se b\u00ebhet mir\u00eb, por rrall\u00eb ndodh kjo dhe gjendja vazhdon deri n\u00eb shk\u00ebputje. Nuk ka martes\u00eb as bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb me cdo kusht. M\u00eb e mir\u00eb nj\u00eb ndarje e dinjitetshme dhe njerezor\u00eb sesa nj\u00eb bashkim i deformuar dhe i dhunsh\u00ebm\u201d, <\/span>thot\u00eb drejtori Fejzullahu. P\u00ebrderisa, prof. Fatmir Qollakaj, sociolog, k\u00ebrkon nagazhim m\u00eb t\u00eb shtuar n\u00eb parandalimin e k\u00ebsaj forme e dhun\u00ebs. <\/span><\/div>\n
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M\u00eb e mir\u00eb nj\u00eb ndarje e dinjitetshme se nj\u00eb martes\u00eb e dhunshme<\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u201eNevojitet nj\u00eb senzibilizim, nj\u00eb vetdij\u00ebsim dhe nj\u00eb shkarkim nga paragjykimet n\u00eb kuptimin e komunikimit t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Mediat kan\u00eb nj\u00eb rol t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb shembjen e atyre paragjykimeve, t\u00eb asaj qasjeje stereotipe, se pavar\u00ebsisht nga kush vjen dhuna, q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb mbahet n\u00ebn kotroll duhet t\u00eb denoncohet\u201d. <\/span><\/div>\n
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Sipas Policise se Kosoves, prej t\u00eb 954 rasteve t\u00eb raportuara p\u00ebr dhunen n\u00eb familje gjate vitit 2010, 190 prej tyre jan\u00eb meshkuj. Nd\u00ebrsa, n\u00eb 11 raste ushtrueset e dhun\u00ebs ndaj tyre jan\u00eb femrat. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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