{"id":5804,"date":"2011-01-18T09:40:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-18T09:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/2011\/01\/18\/heshtja-e-viktimave-te-incestit-favorizon-keqberesit\/"},"modified":"2023-03-01T22:06:01","modified_gmt":"2023-03-01T22:06:01","slug":"heshtja-e-viktimave-te-incestit-favorizon-keqberesit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/en\/heshtja-e-viktimave-te-incestit-favorizon-keqberesit\/","title":{"rendered":"Heshtja e viktimave t\u00eb incestit favorizon p\u00ebrdhunuesit"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><i><b>18 janar 2011, Dojce Vele, <\/b>Gjat\u00eb tri viteve t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs jan\u00eb raportuar kat\u00ebr raste t\u00eb incestit. Por, shifra besohet t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe. Nd\u00ebrsa izolimi I fenomenit, pengon nd\u00ebshkimin e kryesve t\u00eb vepr\u00ebs dhe trajtimin e viktim\u00ebs.\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div><i>Sipas tw dhenave te Policise se Kosoves, n\u00eb tri vitet e fundit, n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs jan\u00eb raportuar vet\u00ebm 4 raste t\u00eb incestit n\u00eb Kosove. <i>\u201eN\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb statistikave, n\u00eb vitin 2008, n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosoves \u00ebsht\u00eb raportuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rast t\u00eb incestit i cili ka rezultuae me vrasje, e q\u00eb motivi ka q\u00ebn\u00eb keqtrajtim seksual. N\u00eb vitin 2009 jan\u00eb raportuar tri raste t\u00eb incestit, dy raste jan\u00eb cil\u00ebsuar dhunim nd\u00ebrsa nj\u00eb rast, tentim dhunimi. Nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb vitin 2010 nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb raportuar asnje rast i incestit\u201c, thot\u00eb Sabrije Kamberi, zyrtare p\u00ebr Informim n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs. <\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>Rr\u00ebfimi t\u00eb cilin kjo grua p\u00ebr familjaren e vet e sjell n\u00eb kushte anonimiteti p\u00ebr Dojce Vele-n, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebri nga tri rastet e raportuara n\u00eb polici: <i>\u201cJo, qika nuk ka desht, por tezaku I vet e ka rrejt: \u201cM\u00b4ka cu nana me t\u00b4mar me fjet te na!\u201d, edhe kah e ka pru e ka dhunu n\u00b4mal. Por, kur e ka lane shtatzan\u00eb, ka dasht\u00eb me e cu te mjeku me abortu. Kur s\u00b4ka dasht\u00eb kjo e ka rreh, se e ka pa veten cka ba\u2026Qika, pas rrahjes e ka lajmeru n\u00b4polici dhe ka kallxu se e ka dhunu. Ai po e mban burgun tri vjet p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, e tezakja i ka lind qike e e ka dhan\u00eb p\u00ebr adoptim\u201c.<\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>Mir\u00ebpo, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mosbashk\u00ebpunimit t\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve dhe heshtjes s\u00eb fakteve nga familjar\u00ebt, incesti mbetet l\u00ebnda m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00b4u trajtuar nga gjykatat. Mejdi Dehari, gjyqtar penalist n\u00eb Gjykat\u00ebn e Qarkut n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb, i cili ka trajtuar l\u00ebnd\u00eb t\u00eb incestit, sjell detaje nga p\u00ebrvoja e tij: <\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i><i>\u201eKemi pas nj\u00eb rast ku vikima pas incestit me babain \u00ebsht\u00eb largu nga sht\u00ebpia dhe ka q\u00ebn\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sjellja e saj n\u00eb shqyrtimin gjyqsor. Pas ngritjes s\u00eb aktakuz\u00ebs, gjykata nuk ka mundur t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes vendimin vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit t\u00eb saj, nd\u00ebrsa ajo pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb sjell n\u00eb gjykat\u00eb\u00a0 ka th\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00ebm t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, sepse nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb ka krijuar familje. Mirepo, i nj\u00ebjti person ka provuar t\u00eb abuzoj\u00eb edhe me vajz\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr dhe ajo e ka th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteten para Trupit Gjykues, pa ngurim. Dhe k\u00ebshtu, personi \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebnuar mbi kat\u00ebr vjet p\u00ebr tentim dhunimi\u201c.<\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i><i>Rezistenca e forte e familjeve te prekura nga fenomeni ishte pengese e nism\u00ebs s\u00eb akademik Pajazit Nushit p\u00ebr hulumtimin e mir\u00ebfillte t\u00eb incestit. Naime Sherifi, drejtoresh\u00eb e Strehimores p\u00ebr Gruan dhe F\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb, ku me programe t\u00eb vecanta jan\u00eb trajtuar tri viktima t\u00eb incestit, thot\u00eb se arsyet e k\u00ebsaj rezistence jan\u00eb: \u201ePik\u00eb s\u00eb pari, stigma. E dyta, pik\u00ebpyetja ku do t\u00eb mbetem pas k\u00ebsaj, a do t\u00b4m\u00eb pranoj\u00eb rrethi?Dhe e treta, mosbesueshm\u00ebria n\u00eb institucionet e rendit\u201c ,<\/i> shpjegon drejtoresha Sherifi, e cila ka par\u00eb nga af\u00ebr mohimin e fenomenit nga familjar\u00ebt e viktim\u00ebs-<i>Sepse, ata jan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar ta mbyllin rastin, se \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00ebshtje nderi dhe ata p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb nj\u00eb moral t\u00eb rrjesh\u00ebm n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb mos t\u00b4iu dal nami i zi\u201c. <\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;EN-GB\\&quot;\">Sepse, nuk ka mjedis kulturor as social pavar\u00ebsisht nga shkalla e zhvillimit, i cili nuk e ndalon incestin. Ky fenomen ka t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebmendjen e mendimtar\u00ebve q\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebrat e lashta, nd\u00ebrsa edhe feja ka th\u00ebn\u00eb fjal\u00ebn e vet lidhur me ndalimin e marr\u00ebdhenjeve seksuale brenda farefisit deri ne faqen e kat\u00ebrt. <\/span><\/i><i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;EN-GB\\&quot;\">\u201eNdersa, eliminimi I fenomenit varet shum\u00eb prej zhvillimit t\u00eb sistemit t\u00eb vlerave sociale I cili dikton\u00a0<\/span><\/i><i><\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><i><i><i>Dukuria e incestit \u00ebsht\u00eb ndalesa m\u00eb e hershme e paraqitur gjat\u00eb historis\u00eb s\u00eb zhvillimit njer\u00ebzor, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn psiko-analiza e lidh me fazen edipale t\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb individit-thote p\u00ebr Dojce Vele-n, psikologu i mir\u00ebnjohur kosovar, prof.dr. Pajazit Nushi.<\/i><\/i><\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><i><i>\u201eKjo faz\u00eb fillon prej vitit t\u00eb tret\u00eb deri n\u00eb vitin e pest\u00eb. Ajo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me zhvillimin e dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs-mashkull ndaj s\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs<\/i>&#8211; fem\u00ebr ndaj t\u00eb atit. Nga forma n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn individi del prej k\u00ebsaj faze, varet shum\u00eb zhvillimi i dukuris\u00eb s\u00eb incestit m\u00eb von\u00eb\u201d, shpjegon prof. dr. Pajazit Nushi, sipas t\u00eb cilit- N\u00eb disa mjedise dhe familje, krijimi i sistemit t\u00eb vlerave sociale dhe familjare ka nj\u00eb kujdes t\u00eb posac\u00ebm dhe parandalon shfaqjen e k\u00ebsaj dukurie, p\u00ebrderisa n\u00eb mjedise apo familje t\u00eb tjera, moskujdesi I kr<br \/>\nijimit t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre vlerave nxit shfaqjen e rasteve t\u00eb posacme q\u00eb prekin sfer\u00ebn e incestit.<\/i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><i><i>\u201cP\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye n\u00eb psikologji konsiderohet se formimi I \u201cMbi-Unit\u201d t\u00eb njeriut me an\u00eb t\u00eb edukat\u00ebs familjare e sidomos zhvillimi sistematik I k\u00ebtyre vlerave \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prej kushteve kryesore t\u00eb ikjes ose t\u00eb largimit t\u00eb individeve nga dukuria e incestit<\/i>-shpjegon prof.dr.Pajazit Nushi, sipas t\u00eb cilit-<i>Edhepse fenomeni I incestit n\u00eb Kosove dhe rajon \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i shprehur, p\u00ebrpjekjet p\u00ebr hulumtime nuk kane sjellur rezultate shkencore, ngaq\u00eb fenomeni zhvillohet n\u00eb forma tejet t\u00eb fshehta&#8221;-t<\/i><\/i><\/i><span lang=\"\\&quot;EN-GB\\&quot;\">hot\u00eb prof.dr.Pajazit Nushi, sipas t\u00eb cilit:<i>\u201eKryesit e k\u00ebsaj vepre penale kan\u00eb probleme t\u00eb r\u00ebnda psiko-patologjike dhe medoemos duhet t\u00b4iu n\u00ebnshtrohen seancave t\u00eb posacme psiko-terapeutike. N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, zhvillimi I individ\u00ebve q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebsuar apo I jan\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar dukuris\u00eb s\u00eb incestit, nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb normal nd\u00ebrsa ky anormalitet do t\u00eb shfaqet gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs, qofte edhe n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb shtyr\u00eb n\u00eb \u00eb shumt\u00ebn me agresivitet t\u00eb duksh\u00ebm\u201c.<\/i><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;EN-GB\\&quot;\">Kodi Penal i Kosov\u00ebs parasheh d\u00ebnime t\u00eb ashp\u00ebra kunder incestit, varesisht nga pasojat e k\u00ebsaj vepre penale. Nd\u00ebrsa, rasti m\u00eb makab\u00ebr i incestit n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb mbetet dhunimi dhe ngulfatja e nj\u00eb vog\u00eblusheje 7 vjecare nga axha i vet, i cili ka p\u00ebrfunduar me d\u00ebnimin capital: 40 vjet heqje lirie.<\/span><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>18 janar 2011, Dojce Vele, Gjat\u00eb tri viteve t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs jan\u00eb raportuar kat\u00ebr raste t\u00eb incestit. Por, shifra besohet t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe. Nd\u00ebrsa izolimi I fenomenit, pengon nd\u00ebshkimin e kryesve t\u00eb vepr\u00ebs dhe trajtimin e viktim\u00ebs.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"slim_seo":{"title":"Heshtja e viktimave t\u00eb incestit favorizon p\u00ebrdhunuesit - Ajet\u00ebBeqiraj.org","description":"18 janar 2011, Dojce Vele, Gjat\u00eb tri viteve t\u00eb fundit n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs jan\u00eb raportuar kat\u00ebr raste t\u00eb incestit. 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