{"id":5807,"date":"2010-12-27T14:09:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-27T14:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/2010\/12\/27\/te-dhunuara-nga-forcat-serbe-te-harruara-nga-shoqeria-e-kosoves\/"},"modified":"2026-02-04T20:47:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T20:47:41","slug":"te-dhunuara-nga-forcat-serbe-te-harruara-nga-shoqeria-e-kosoves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/en\/te-dhunuara-nga-forcat-serbe-te-harruara-nga-shoqeria-e-kosoves\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00eb dhunuara nga forcat serbe, t\u00eb stigmatizuara e t\u00eb harruara nga shoq\u00ebria n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"\\&quot;ltr\\&quot;\">\n<div><b>27 dhjetor 2010, Dojce Vele.<\/b><b> <\/b>T\u00eb mij\u00ebra femrat e dhunuara nga forcat serbe n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, jan\u00eb nj\u00eb kategori e ndjeshme e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Por institucionet e Kosov\u00ebs dhe ato nd\u00ebrkombtare kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pak qoft\u00eb n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen institucionale apo n\u00eb sjelljen e p\u00ebrdhunuesve para drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb.<i><\/i><\/div>\n<div><!--more--><\/div>\n<p><i>\u00a0<span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u201dNe, t\u00eb dhunuarat, edhe kur ecim rrug\u00ebs e ndjejm\u00eb barr\u00ebn e dhunimit, e shofim at\u00eb n\u00eb syt\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndoshta kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00b4mund ta imagjinojn\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb kemi perjetuar. Edhe kur njer\u00ebzit qeshin pa kujtuar fare se ne ekzistojm\u00eb, ne mendojm\u00eb s\u00eb ata qeshin dhe tallen me tragjedin\u00eb ton\u00eb&#8230;Ne, t\u00eb dhunuarat, edhe n\u00eb mesin te t\u00eb gjall\u00ebve ndjehemi te vdekura!\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Ky fragment i shk\u00ebputur nga libri \u201cRr\u00ebfimet e femrave t\u00eb dhunuara gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb\u201d, \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb z\u00eb i mij\u00ebra femrave t\u00eb dhunuara nga forcat serbe n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, t\u00eb cilat 11-te vjet pas luft\u00ebs nuk mund t\u00eb flasin m\u00eb p\u00ebr tmerrin e p\u00ebrjetuar. \u00cbsht\u00eb kjo nj\u00eb klithje e brendshme dhe nj\u00eb z\u00eb i vulosur n\u00eb faqe libri, si p\u00ebrgj\u00ebrimi me i thell\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn tani dikush t\u00eb ngreh z\u00ebrin p\u00ebr fatkeq\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre, tashm\u00eb kur edhe pas nj\u00eb dekade dhuna e ushtruar mbi to \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar me t\u00eb zez\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e tyre, vrrag\u00ebt e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb thella se plag\u00ebt e trupit. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">T\u00eb izoluara nga plag\u00ebt e dukshme <\/span><\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u201eAto kan\u00eb plag\u00eb t\u00eb dukshme, q\u00eb nga prerja e gjinjve, k\u00ebputja e vesh\u00ebve, prerja e buz\u00ebve, nxjerrja e syrit. Kan\u00eb kafshime, l\u00ebndime e djegje me cigare n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb, n\u00eb gjoks, n\u00eb bark ose djegje me gj\u00ebra t\u00eb metalta ne fytyr\u00eb\u201d,<\/span><\/i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\"> rr\u00ebfen autorja e k\u00ebtij libri, Luljeta Selimi, e cila duke q\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb krye t\u00eb nj\u00eb orgnaizate joqeveritare, i ka par\u00eb nga af\u00ebr viktimat e dhunimit. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Dhe, teksa disa prej tyre kan\u00eb arritur t\u00eb kapin serish fillin e jet\u00ebs, t\u00eb tjera shk\u00ebputur nga bota e braktisur nga shoq\u00ebria jetojne n\u00eb skaj t\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebs, izolimi i plot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjerat nuk vie vec p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb stigm\u00ebs. Sepse, ato nga torturat jan\u00eb shp\u00ebrfytyruar, thot\u00eb zonja Selimi: <\/span><br \/>\n<span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u201eSi do dukej nje grua s\u00eb cil\u00ebs mbi 100 cigare i jan\u00eb fikur n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb? Nje grua s\u00eb cil\u00ebs i \u00ebsht\u00eb shkruar me thik\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb emri i p\u00ebrdhunuesit? Nj\u00eb grua s\u00eb cil\u00ebs me dhjet\u00ebra her\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr thika zvarr\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr fytyr\u00eb dhe plaga i \u00ebsht\u00eb qelbur me dhjet\u00ebra her\u00eb? K\u00ebto I kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ushtar\u00ebt dhe polic\u00ebt serb, nd\u00ebrsa pacientet tona vazhdimisht thon\u00eb se n\u00eb mesin e tyre kishte edhe civil!\u201d. <\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Stigma e r\u00ebnd\u00eb sa dhunimi <\/span><\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Duke pasur parasysh se tek dhunimet dhe abuzimet seksuale, stigma p\u00ebrcillet te cdo popull dhe tek secila grua, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb viktim\u00eb t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr dhunimin. Por, \u00ebsht\u00eb tejet e padrejt\u00eb kur as pas nj\u00eb dekade e m\u00eb shum\u00eb askush s\u00b4ka provuar t\u00b4iu qaset k\u00ebtyre viktimave me nj\u00eb program t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb, I cili do t\u00b4u ofronte ndihm\u00eb porofesionale pa e stigmatizuar dhe shkaktuar probleme n\u00eb familje, mendon Naime Sherifi, e cila duke q\u00ebn\u00eb pjes\u00eb e stafit t\u00eb K\u00ebshillit p\u00ebr Mbrojtjen e Lirive dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb Drejtave t\u00eb Njeriut n\u00eb vitet \u00b494-2003, pati qasje direkte n\u00eb deklaratat e k\u00ebtyre viktimave apo d\u00ebshmitar\u00ebve, t\u00eb mbledhura n\u00eb terren menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas luft\u00ebs nga t\u00eb mbi 3000 vullnetar\u00ebt e k\u00ebtij keshilli. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u201cP\u00ebr shifra t\u00eb femrave t\u00eb dhunuara kushdo q\u00eb flet vec mund t\u00eb gabohet, p\u00ebrderisa nuk ka nj\u00eb studim t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb realizohet. Nd\u00ebrsa, e them me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi, se asnj\u00eb institucion qoft\u00eb vendor apo nd\u00ebrkombtar n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb nuk ka b\u00ebr\u00eb dicka konkrete p\u00eb<br \/>\nr to as nuk ju \u00ebsht\u00eb qasur m\u00eb ndonj\u00eb program gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00b4iu dal ndihm\u00eb. P\u00ebrderisa ato nuk kan\u00eb arrit t\u00eb hyn\u00eb i kategori\u201d,<\/span><\/i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\"> thot\u00eb drejtoresha Sherifi.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">T\u00eb dhunuarat n\u00eb kategorin\u00eb e invalid\u00ebve t\u00eb luft\u00ebs<\/span><\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">N\u00eb Ligjin p\u00ebr Familjet e D\u00ebshmor\u00ebve, Invalid\u00ebve t\u00eb Luft\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb Viktimave Civile, femrat e dhunuara n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb jane p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb kategorinw e invalid\u00ebve t\u00eb luft\u00ebs. Nd\u00ebrsa, sipas Bajram Azemit, Kryesues i Divizonit t\u00eb Skems s\u00eb Pensioneve, ne Departamentin p\u00ebr Familjet e D\u00ebshmor\u00ebve, Invalid\u00ebve t\u00eb Luft\u00ebs dhe Viktimave Civile n\u00eb Ministrin\u00eb p\u00ebr Pun\u00eb dhe Mir\u00ebqenje Sociale t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, baza e pensionit invalidor p\u00ebr civil\u00ebt e luft\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb baraz me pag\u00ebn minimale n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u201eD.m.th prej 40 per qind deri n\u00eb 60 p\u00ebr qind, pagesa \u00ebsht\u00eb 96 euro n\u00eb muaj. Prej 60 deri n\u00eb 80 per qind, 109 euro. Nd\u00ebrsa, prej 81 deri n\u00eb 100 per qind, pagesa e pensionit \u00ebsht\u00eb 122 euro. Ata\/o q\u00eb kan\u00eb shkall\u00ebn e invalidetitit mbi 80 per qind, e g\u00ebzojn\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr kujdestar i cili paguhet 40 euro n\u00eb muaj\u201c, <\/span><\/i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">thot\u00eb z. Azemi.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Por, kjo ndihm\u00eb solide do t\u00eb vie pasi q\u00eb k\u00ebto femra t\u00eb aplikojn\u00eb me d\u00ebshmi p\u00ebrdhunimi dhe t\u00b4i n\u00ebnshtrohen kontrollit t\u00eb komisionit p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs br\u00ebnda k\u00ebtij departamenti. <i>\u201c<\/i><\/span><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;EN-GB\\&quot;\">Nj\u00eb qasje mizore kjo, absolutisht!-mendon z. Sherifi e cila udh\u00ebheq Strehimoren p\u00ebr Gra dhe Femije, ne Prishtine.<\/span><\/i><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\"> Sepse, ato asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00b4pranuar t\u00b4i n\u00ebnshtrohen nj\u00eb kontrolli t\u00eb till\u00eb, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb probemi i stigmatizimit!\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><b><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Mij\u00ebra femra t\u00eb dhunuara-P\u00ebrdhunuesit larg drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb<\/span><\/b><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">Femrat e dhunuara nga forcat serbe n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb jan\u00eb kategoria q\u00eb ka p\u00ebsuar m\u00eb se r\u00ebndi nga lufta. Por, institucionet e Kosov\u00ebs as ato nd\u00ebrkombtare nuk kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb identifikimin e rasteve, n\u00eb mbledhjen e shifrave, n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen e tyre institucionale apo n\u00eb futjen e tyre n\u00ebn mbrojtjen ligjore. P\u00ebr to nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi q\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuesit e tyre t\u00eb sill\u00ebn para gjyqit. \u201c<i>E kjo do mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhej pa ua cenuar dinjitetin dhe duke ruajtur konfidencialitetin e viktimave<\/i>-mendon drejtoresha Sherifi, sipas s\u00eb cil\u00ebs-K\u00ebtyre femrave duhet qasur <i>me nj\u00eb program i cili v\u00ebrtet do t\u00b4iu ndihmonte. N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn, m\u00eb mir\u00eb mos t\u00eb preken. Ndoshta, pas pes\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vitesh edhe femrat n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb do t\u00eb deklarohen p\u00ebr dhunimet. Por, n\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn e sotme dh\u00eb n\u00eb mentalitetin ekzistues, \u00ebsht\u00eb gjynah me ua hap plag\u00ebn!\u201c<\/i><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">P\u00ebrderisa, autorja Luljeta Selimi, para pajtimit th<\/span><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">err<\/span><\/i><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">e<\/span><\/i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">t p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsi:\u00a0<\/span><i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u201cNe vazhdimisht na k\u00ebrkohet t\u00eb pajtohemi me popullin serb. Ne nuk kemi asgj\u00eb kund\u00ebr popullit serb apo cilitdo popull i cili vjen t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetoj\u00eb m\u00eb ne n\u00eb paqe. Mir\u00ebpo, si mund t\u00b4i k\u00ebrkohet kjo nj\u00eb viktime e cila p\u00ebrdit\u00eb e sheh fytyr\u00ebn e p\u00ebrdhunesit t\u00eb vet?!\u201c<\/span><\/i><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>Ajet<i><span lang=\"\\&quot;SQ\\&quot;\">\u00eb<\/span><\/i>\u00a0Beqiraj, Dojce Welle<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>27 dhjetor 2010, Dojce Vele. T\u00eb mij\u00ebra femrat e dhunuara nga forcat serbe n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, jan\u00eb nj\u00eb kategori e ndjeshme e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Por institucionet e Kosov\u00ebs dhe ato nd\u00ebrkombtare kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pak qoft\u00eb n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen institucionale apo n\u00eb sjelljen e p\u00ebrdhunuesve para drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"slim_seo":{"title":"T\u00eb dhunuara nga forcat serbe, t\u00eb stigmatizuara e t\u00eb harruara nga shoq\u00ebria n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb","description":"T\u00eb mij\u00ebra femrat e dhunuara nga forcat serbe n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, jan\u00eb nj\u00eb kategori e ndjeshme e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. 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