{"id":5850,"date":"2010-05-21T09:14:00","date_gmt":"2010-05-21T09:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/2010\/05\/21\/martesat-shqiptaro-serbe-deshire-apo-nevoje\/"},"modified":"2026-03-10T15:32:43","modified_gmt":"2026-03-10T15:32:43","slug":"martesat-shqiptaro-serbe-deshire-apo-nevoje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ajetebeqiraj.org\/en\/martesat-shqiptaro-serbe-deshire-apo-nevoje\/","title":{"rendered":"Martesat shqiptaro serbe deshire apo nevoje?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Cifti bashkeshortor Violeta Bucaj dhe Spasoje Pavlloviq<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n
\"Bellopoje
Fshati Bellopoje<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

21 maj 2010, Dojce Vele<\/strong>. <\/i>N\u00eb gjysm\u00ebshekullin e kaluar, martesat e shqiptar\u00ebve t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs me serbe te Serbis\u00eb kishin tejkaluar dallimet etnike dhe ishin b\u00ebr\u00eb pothuaj mod\u00eb. Por, edhepse pas konflitkit te pergjakshem shqiptaro-serb te vitit 98-98 martesa t\u00eb tilla p\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb papranueshme, tashm\u00eb serb\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs po k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr nuse vajza nga Shqip\u00ebria. Arsyeja:Migrimi i djemve shqiptar n\u00eb bot\u00eb dhe largimi i vajzave serbe n\u00eb zonat urbane. Nj\u00ebrin ga qiftet shqiptaro-serb te lidhur ne martese gjejm\u00eb n\u00eb Bellopoj\u00eb t\u00eb Pej\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Rruga zig zage e Bellopoj\u00ebs rreth dy kilometra n\u00eb jug t\u00eb Pej\u00ebs, \u00e7on n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrugic\u00eb q\u00eb ndan dy sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb banuara me serb\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs shtrihet gj\u00ebr\u00eb e gjat\u00eb fusha e mbjellur me kopshtije e grur\u00eb. Nj\u00eb e lehur e pareshtur qeni nga sht\u00ebpia fqinje na p\u00ebrcjell deri n\u00eb oborrin e nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn na mir\u00ebpret nj\u00eb grua e re.<\/p>\n

Violeta, 29 vje\u00e7are, shqiptare nga Shkodra qe nj\u00eb vit e gjysm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar me Spasoj\u00ebn, serb nga Bellopoja e Pej\u00ebs. \u201eSituata ishte shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb dhe nisur nga ajo \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur, secili mund t\u00eb pyes: \u201eA \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur nj\u00eb martes\u00eb e till\u00eb?\u201c Mir\u00ebpo, ja q\u00eb kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur! Ne kemi gjetur njeri tjetrin, dashurohemi, respektohemi dhe pajtohemi n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam serb i Kosov\u00ebs dhe kjo shqiptare e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, por jemi si nj\u00eb shpirt i vet\u00ebm!\u201c.<\/p>\n

Ndershm\u00ebria, \u00e7ilt\u00ebrsia, sinqeriteti, pedanteria dhe p\u00ebrkushtimi ndaj familjes jan\u00eb virtytet q\u00eb i ve\u00e7ojn\u00eb vajzat shqiptare nga t\u00eb tjerat-mendon Spasoje, i cili s\u00b4mund t\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr lumturi p\u00ebr veten e tij. Dy televizor\u00eb q\u00eb flasin n\u00eb shqip e serbisht, magnetofon q\u00eb k\u00ebndon muzik\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrzier dhe komunikimi n\u00eb dy gjuh\u00ebt, \u00ebsht\u00eb atmosfera plot kontraste q\u00eb p\u00ebrben p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e k\u00ebtij \u00e7ifti shqiptaro- serb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt presin f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e par\u00eb. Por, megjith\u00ebse Violeta \u00ebsht\u00eb katolike, \u201epag\u00ebzimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb manastirin ortodoks, aty ku u b\u00eb edhe martesa”-thot\u00eb Spasoje. Edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebn do ta pag\u00ebzojm\u00eb si ortodoks, natyrisht. Nd\u00ebrsa, emrin do ta gjejm\u00eb diku ne mes\u201e.<\/p>\n

Martesat e dikurshme shqiptaro-serbe,politike!<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00eb gjysm\u00ebshekullin e kaluar shqiptar\u00ebt dhe serb\u00ebt kishin tejkaluar dallimet etnike. Martesat e shqiptar\u00ebve me serbe ishin pothuajse mod\u00eb dhe martesa te tilla kishin lidhur personalitete t\u00eb njohura t\u00eb asaj kohe. Martesa interesi dhe rrall\u00eb nga dashuria-mendon Nysreti, 45 vje\u00e7 nga De\u00e7ani. \u201eIshin martesa politike, t\u00eb kusht\u00ebzuara e t\u00eb porositura nga njer\u00ebz t\u00eb men\u00e7ur p\u00ebr t\u00b4ia kusht\u00ebzuar pozit\u00ebn tjetrit. Ne e dim\u00eb se politikan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb njohur shqiptar ishin t\u00eb martuar me serbe\u201e-thot\u00eb Nysreti.<\/p>\n

Mir\u00ebpo, p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn dhe rrethanat aktuale, martesa t\u00eb tilla si e Violeta Bucajt nga Shkodra e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe Spasoje Pavllovicit nga Bellopoja e Kosov\u00ebs, jan\u00eb t\u00eb pazakonta. Por, ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebz\u00ebsh\u00ebm sa iu p\u00ebrket z\u00ebrave p\u00ebrreth. Dhe prandaj qarkullojn\u00eb edhe z\u00ebra. \u201eAdmirimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i madh nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe paragjykimet nacionaliste as q\u00eb m\u00eb hyn\u00eb n\u00eb vesh. Un\u00eb s\u00b4jam fajtor p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe uroj t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet kurr\u00eb m\u00eb. Un\u00eb isha dhe mbetem kosovar dhe as tri dit\u00eb s\u00b4kam mundur t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj n\u00eb Serbi. E sa iu p\u00ebrket patriot\u00ebve t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj, do t\u00eb zbehet edhe kjo nj\u00eb dit\u00eb\u2026\u201c-thot\u00eb Spasoje.<\/p>\n

\u201eNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb paragjykohet askush. Nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur, s\u00b4duhet par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb serb, shqiptar a \u00e7kado tjet\u00ebr. Nj\u00eb Zot kena t\u00b4gjith\u00eb. Para tij t\u00b4gjith\u00eb jena nj\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n

N\u00eb Kosova ka shum\u00eb shkodrane t\u00eb martuara me serb\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Violeta thot\u00eb se ka shum\u00eb shkodrane t\u00eb martuara me serb\u00eb nga Serbia. Arsyet kryesore: migrimi i djemve shqiptar dhe ikja e vajzave serbe nga zonat rurale. Prandaj, par\u00eb nga ky k\u00ebnd, v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb thuhet n\u00ebse martesa t\u00eb tilla jan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb apo m\u00eb shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruar familjes me \u00e7far\u00ebdo \u00e7mimi\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201ePrej Shkodre ka shum\u00eb vajza t\u00eb martuara me serb\u00eb t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb Serbis\u00eb. Djemt\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb ma si dikur. Ikin n\u00eb Itali, n\u00b4Angli e n\u00b4shtete tjera, tetan\u00eb kan gra tjera p\u00ebr dokumente e vijn\u00eb e marrin tjetr\u00ebn k\u00ebtu. Un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb shoqe q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb martu pas meje. Asht martu me das\u00ebm, ka shku atje dhe pas tre muajve i ka than\u00eb: \u201cShko n\u00b4Shqipni se je m\u00ebrzit p\u00ebr familje\u201d. Kur ka ardh\u00eb, i ka ba than\u00eb: \u201cRri atje se k\u00ebtu e kam gruan me f\u00ebmij\u00eb e shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00eb tjet\u00ebr\u201c. \u00c7ka m\u00b4duhet shqiptar me tetana ato probleme. At\u00ebher\u00eb ma mir\u00eb me u martu me \u00e7kado tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7 t\u00eb jet\u00eb i mir\u00eb\u201c.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrgjegje e logjikshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb re. Mir\u00ebpo, jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb mendojn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Nysreti, 45 vje\u00e7 nga De\u00e7ani, thot\u00eb se mjafton t\u00eb kthesh kok\u00ebn vet\u00ebm dhjet\u00eb vjet pas q\u00eb t\u00eb bindesh se serb\u00ebt p\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt mbeten armiq t\u00eb p\u00ebrbetuar: \u201eA pak ka arsye a? A pak, a?! Arsyeja ma e fresk\u00ebt, 250 vet i gjet\u00ebm dje a pardje n\u00b4varreza masive t\u00b4Serbis\u00eb e tash me u martu fmija jem me serb…?!-thot\u00eb Nysreti duke rrahur tavolin\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Pas luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, n\u00eb Zyr\u00ebn e Sh\u00ebrbimit Civil t\u00eb KK t\u00eb Pej\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb regjistruar asnj\u00eb martes\u00eb e serb\u00ebve. Dy vajzat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb t\u00eb martuara me serb t\u00eb Pej\u00ebs, por edhe disa t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb Mitrovic\u00eb jan\u00eb kuror\u00ebzuar n\u00eb veri t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs. Nd\u00ebrsa, p\u00ebr faktin se serb\u00ebt rrall\u00ebher\u00eb i raportojn\u00eb kuror\u00ebzimet apo shkuror\u00ebzimet n\u00eb instituconet e Kosov\u00ebs, Enti i Statistikave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs nuk posedon me t\u00eb dh\u00ebna t\u00eb sakta.<\/p>\n

Autor: Ajete Beqiraj<\/p>\n

Redaktoi: Aida Cama<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

21 maj 2010, Dojce Vele. N\u00eb gjysm\u00ebshekullin e kaluar, martesat e shqiptar\u00ebve t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs me serbe te Serbis\u00eb kishin tejkaluar dallimet etnike dhe ishin b\u00ebr\u00eb pothuaj mod\u00eb. 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